Insanity: doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results.– Albert Einstein
No one saves us but ourselves. No one can and no one may. We ourselves must walk the path. — Buddha
Work on your self esteem first. The better you see yourself the more possibilities you will see around you.
The most difficult journey is the one that you make from your heart to your mind.
Be honest with yourself and others, stand for what you believe is right in your heart. Never lie or be dishonest or it will hurt you and the ones around you. Fight with your whole heart for what you believe.
Three things cannot be long hidden: the sun, the moon, and the truth — Buddha
You are responsible
You may have been conditioned by your circumstances, and influenced by the people around you. Let the past go, and focus only on what you can do now. Start behaving like the person that you want to be. It's your responsibility and No one else's call to be that person. Be responsible for everything in your life, a victim only complains and never takes action, because he thinks that the problems are outside his circle of influence and blames people or circumstances. Take an active role in your life. Accept full responsibility for the good and the bad around you, then work to improve it. Think like the person that you want to become until you become that person
God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, the courage to change the things I can, and the wisdom to know the difference. Reinhold Niebuhr
You get in life what you focus on. How can you change the results? You need to change your focus. If you get what you focus, why not focus in the positive things in life?
Your brain sees reality with a lens that focuses on a limited number of things, so when an acquaintance buys a car, you start to see that kind of car everywhere. The good news is that you can train your mind to find what you want. Just spend some time each day to visualize what you want to get, and you will find the opportunities all around you.
Whatever the mind can conceive and believe, the mind can achieve. Napoleon Hill.
Take a small test to evaluate yourself regularly. Keep track of your score as you keep working on yourself. What gets measured gets done and improved.